it-only-takes-a-spark said: Not weird at all!! It’s pretty common, actually.
I’m bi and I have the same feelings. It’s not weird. Some days I look at every girl I see and I’m like “damn I want to touch a soft girl so bad” and some days I am obsessed with men’s jaws. I feel like I have a slider on the Kinsey scale.
I know it’s not weird and it happens to me a lot too. But the thing is, right now in Erasmus, there’s this guy who’s really into me (+ all my “friends” here pushing me to “make something happen” with him). I don’t like him and I can’t stand the thought of being with a guy right now. But I don’t think he’s gonna understand. If I tell him I’m bi but I’m only interested in girls at the moment he’s gonna think “don’t care, she’s still into men”. I feel like he won’t respect that. And I don’t want to lie and tell everyone that I’m something that I’m not (100% lesbian) when I’m not even out to my family yet.
Today’s the day. The day you help save the internet from being ruined.
(Long story short: The FCC is about to make a critical decision as to whether or not internet service providers have to treat all traffic equally. If they choose wrong, then the internet where anyone can start a website for any reason at all, the internet that’s been so momentous, funny, weird, and surprising—that internet could cease to exist. Here’s your chance to preserve a beautiful thing.)
parenting tip: talk to your kids about mental illness. tell them they might have a hard time. tell them they can ask for therapy and medication. tell them they aren’t alone. tell them if your family has a history of mental illnesses and which ones. just fucking talk to your kids and be there for them.
Yes please please do this it could save a lot of suffering
The awkward “I don’t want to annoy you but I really like talking to you” stage.
It’s simple, anon.
If you want to do it, go ahead and make everything you can to achieve it.
If you don’t want to do it, feel shy/not-ready, or want to wait for the right person then just be patient.